The world of BDSM is a thrilling one to explore, and if you’re just getting your feet wet, don’t worry – there are no actual spiked leather masks, whips, chains, or dungeons (unless you want there to be). Couples who want to add some heat to their love lives or act on their fantasies often simply start out with some light bondage. Some couples never venture past this activity, and some couples take it much, much farther – your path is completely up to you. If you like the idea of exploring this naughty side of yourself, here are some tips on getting started.
Go slow
Bondage does not exactly qualify as “vanilla” sex, so be patient and take things slow at first. You can find lots of different couples sex toys in Mandurah to use in your encounters, from blindfolds to cuffs to gags. Preventing your partner from moving, seeing, hearing, or speaking (or all four) – otherwise known as “sensory deprivation” – is a highly sensual way to give them a thrilling experience. It can be powerful and erotic, but it can also be a bit unsettling for people who haven’t done it before. Move slowly as you tease and tantalise them to higher and higher levels of arousal. Don’t move on (or feel pressured to move on) to more intense activities unless you both feel ready.
Trust and be trustworthy
Usually, in bondage, there will be a “top” and a “bottom,” or one partner who is dominant and one who is submissive. Some couples fall into their roles naturally; others like to take turns. Either way, both partners must be able to trust each other completely at all times. When you’re restrained, knowing that your partner won’t do anything that isn’t okay with you will help you relax and make the activity much more fun.
Take precautions
You’re most likely aware of your need for a safe word. When you or your partner feel uncomfortable and utter this word, the other will immediately stop what they are doing. For this reason, it’s important not to choose words that could be mistaken, such as “no” or “stop.” Instead, choose an unrelated word, such as “mango” that would normally never come up during sex. Even the words “safe word” themselves are effective because their meaning is crystal-clear. Also, if you use handcuffs, make sure to keep track of where the key is and have the spare available.
Where to buy male or female sex toys in Mandurah
Remember that at the end of the day, bondage is about having fun! At Sinderellas Adult Stores, we love helping couples explore their fantasies and achieve pleasure beyond their wildest dreams with our vast collection of female and male sex toys in Mandurah and Belmont. Whether you’re just starting out with some velcro wrist cuffs and a satin mask or you’re ready to take things even further with paddles, gags, collars, or nipple clamps, we’ve got what you want. Visit Sinderellas Adult Stores today to find everything you need to take your love life to the next level.